We all get many ‘firsts’ in our lifetime. Some of which we do not remember and some we would probably never forget.
I asked 4 amazing people to share their first kiss experience.
It was worth every second‚ I had flashes of the moment for some time
It was worth it!
I met her during my graduation from high school. She came along with one of my classmates. I thought she was cute and decided to approach her (even if I couldn’t until I placed a bet with my friend – hi Caleb). Until then‚ those kinds of friendships didn’t mean much. She was calm and approachable even though she stressed me for a bit. Eventually‚ we got serious and we didn’t have our moment months after the first meeting. We did calls and social media for about 3 months. It was amazing how we didn’t get to see but I knew I had someone I could share my worries with and listen to whenever she needed to talk about hers‚ and generally shared opinions on issues (even though it seems funny when I think about those opinions).
I thought the first kiss was going to be magical but it ended up being a CLASS (because she had to put the boy through) All I thought a kiss was‚ would be a simple peck on the lips because prior to that meeting‚ I thought to share same breath with some other person was weird and disgusting (hey! Before you come for me‚ most of us thought or even still think this is disgusting. Some of you don’t even share your cutlery with family). Yet‚ the kiss felt good and convenient‚ so mans just adjusted pretty fast.
It was worth every second‚ I had flashes of the moment for some time. I was convinced‚ I was in love. Until the moon decided to visit the friendship. Crack
She gave me something to go home with and think about
My first girlfriend was my first kiss‚ the relationship started when I was about graduating from the university. We had been friends prior but we just heated it off just when I was about leaving school‚ so that didn’t give us enough time to do the whole boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
I graduated‚ so we kind of parted ways but we still kept in touch on the phone. Even during the holidays we still couldn’t meet up because she stays in Abeokuta and I stay in Lagos (long distance relationship! Ughh imagine your first relationship being a long distance relationship‚ that’s the worst). Even after she had resumed‚ she couldn’t leave school to see me and I also couldn’t go see her because I had started working at the time. Until it was time for NYSC‚ I had to go to school to pick up necessary documents‚ so I planned to stay 2 nights just so we could spend “limited” time together.
On the day I was to go back home‚ we met at one of the school offices. I was just about dropping my bag‚ she came towards me and went in for a kiss. I was actually surprised for a few seconds‚ it felt really good though and we looked at each other smiling like lovebirds (hahaha). She gave me something to go home with and think about
All that mattered at that moment was my father’s eyes piercing through my skin
I had my first kiss with my first boyfriend while I was in ss3 and he was at the University. I met him at my cousin’s wedding. I was in the bridal train and he was one of the photographers. I noticed him when I went to the restroom‚ he was staring at me so hard till I got back to my table. He walks up to my table‚ leaned over me and started whispering (I couldn’t hear a word he was saying because all that mattered at that moment was my father’s eyes piercing through my skin) ‚ he wrote down his number on a flyer and asked me to call him; I had to wait till my dad left the table before I kept the flyer in my purse. All I could think of for the rest of the party was me getting home and calling this cute “my type” guy. I was so psyched‚ I never thought cute guys like him could walk up to me (I had mad insecurities at that age) “how could he be attracted to me?” I got home‚ called him and we spoke for about 2 hours.
I had to go back to school (boarding house) we didn’t see again since after the wedding until October 1st (which was a public holiday). He picked me up at the park and all the tension in the world sat on my shoulders (I even struggled with the seat belts chai). We went to eat‚ chatted for a while and I already felt comfortable.
We got to the car‚ he kept staring at me and asked me if he could kiss me‚ I was smiling from ear to ear. Of course‚ I said yes‚ he held my neck and went in for the kiss‚ no tongue just lips locking and it was just PERFECT
I asked her out when I was in my 100 level (of course she said NO)
It was a very boring one apparently‚ it was her first kiss as well so it was a bit weird. I had asked her out when I was in my 100 level (of course she said NO) but we remained close regardless.
After a while‚ her friends started calling me “our boyfriend”. That started seeming strange when in the actual sense we weren’t in a relationship‚ and; at this time‚ I had moved on from the “disappointment” (so to speak) I already had my nose in my books because we were now properly involved in academic work. So‚ I called her for a conversation in one of the lecture theaters in school‚ “am I dating someone I am not aware of? Because all your friends cannot coincidentally tease you and call me “our boyfriend”.
After saying all these‚ she just leaned close and kissed me. Her lips were not open because I tried kissing back‚ I mean it was supposed to be a French kiss‚ it was weird but it was nice as well. It was like in the movies‚ where you kiss someone and that would be the beginning of the relationship (yeah‚ it felt like that with us) there was an awkward silence for about 5 seconds‚ and in my head‚ I went “oh so this is what a kiss feels like”. What made the kiss better was in the fact that it wasn’t just a random person‚ it was the love of my life.
On a scale of boring 0 to amazing 10‚ how would you rate your first kiss? (Don’t be shy lol)
Still waiting on your first kiss? I hope like these guys‚ it’s weird but yet feels GOOD‚ NICE AND PERFECT
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